Probably each of us often thought about the meaning of this mysterious and not entirely clear, the words "sex appeal". It is difficult to clearly define what it is, but each of us would love to have this quality. After all, every woman, even the very young, must admit, very often determines its value and significance of the fact whether she could please the opposite sex. And not just to please, and call desire. Is a kind of litmus test that classifies us in the category of lucky, popular, desirable, and therefore worthy and happy. Or relegated to the background as just friends, acquaintances and colleagues. Well, tell me honestly, you would like to be in life just a colleague or friend and never "beloved"? No, of course! And this is normal and natural! We all secretly or openly want to love (and not just platonic) and feel the excitement, if for some reason we have not been able to get into the category of sexy women. What is it, sex appeal? Turn to the dictionary. Sex appeal (English - sexual attraction). Sexology Dictionary gives the following definition of sex appeal: "the ability to look sexy (sexual), ready (ready) to respond to a sexual request a representative of the opposite sex. Is not necessarily an expression of high sexual needs! SEXUALITY - is a widespread term for sexual characteristics and sexual behavior (A. Giddens). Sex, among other things, it is also the floor. Remember Zadornov joke about how to fill some of the Russian customs declaration in English, in front of the word sex, they write "regular". And yet this word, it turns out, has many meanings and defines such a global thing as gender differences. Simply put, our sexuality is manifested not only in sex, but throughout our appearance. Appearance, facial expression, manner of speaking, moving, peculiarities of the psyche, the structure of the body, clothing, habits ... everything! What then is different from sex-sexuality? Yes it is the essence and not matter. Rather, it is synonymous. Because a woman with bright feminine traits that distinguish it from men, which represents a kind of deep inner sense of self a woman, sexy and sultry, and therefore can not but arouse desire. It is like a beautiful vessel, which requires filling, the invisible powerful magnetism of its charm attracts men. Sometimes you look at it, well, nothing special. And the figure is not the one, and features the wrong, and the hair is far from the ideal structure, but something in it. Zest is the most notorious. And men are flocking to her like moths to a flame. And her life is full of love, and it has a family and children. And another beauty with a perfect appearance somehow bypassed because there is no internal heat and gravity. Cold with her ... One man told me that it may be given or not given to woman by nature. And nothing can do about it. I disagree with him. I believe sexuality, sensuality, femininity is not just possible, but need to learn, so as not to feel the nagging doubts about his foreign unattractiveness, abandonment and disuse. And find his true love, and not its substitute, who allegedly saved from loneliness and no-uselessness. It's no secret that many ugly, think they are totally unattractive, unfeminine, ugly and undesirable to marry the first that fell among the candidate who gave them to his attention. And obsessed with him all my life! Forget about what you ugly, ugly, fat and t.d.i etc. All this bullshit! You - A WOMAN! And that's it. Blind from not just a woman they know only with a magnifying glass or a barely perceptible detail appearance. Create a WOMEN WITH BIG LETTERS. Using only the natural gifts that nature has endowed you. Poor? Let me share some thoughts on the matter. Perhaps someone they seem interesting and useful. • If you still do not feel like a woman, and even vaguely imagine what it is, look around. Observe the women, I think you effortlessly see what it is - a real femininity. And it depends not only on the exterior, but mostly just not from her, but from some kind of a subtle internal state and identification of himself with women in general. • If you are hard to achieve such identification, immediately, try to use the method of constant internal gaze. When and where ever you are, watch for themselves, like look in the mirror. Adjust your behavior, manner of speaking, dress, behave, look like a real woman, according to their own ideas. If you find it difficult to determine what it should be, try to imitate you struck the woman, but only for a while until you feel it is their second nature. • And most importantly, it is feeling like a woman, sexy, sensual, attractive, able to cause desire, not in a hurry to become attached to the first that fell among men. Find your favorite and the only one with whom you'll be able to fully relax, who can trust even the most terrible secrets. And with whom you get! If this works out, this is a very good background to the development of your future relationships. Even if you love him with all my heart, but until you get ill. Do not despair. This is just a matter of time and your mutual desire. Designated development of new unknown heights and areas of your passionate love! Perhaps femininity is difficult to learn. But it is in each one of us, but we do not give her opportunity to be in full force and force others to admire it with us. And that is a complete, harmonious and happy woman.